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So is there any accepted etiquette for dudes dating? Other than just not being an asshole and general personal etiquette like not talking with food in your mouth. Personally I've been in situations where people try to pay for me and it makes me extremely uncomfortable. Even when there's a Gay hookup who pays for dinner and known income disparity it ends up being a matter of pride and not liking being a Gay hookup who pays for dinner for me.

I much prefer going Dutch even if it's going to be a much bigger deal for me than it would be for him. My question is, how long before you start discussing roles in bed?

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I guess this really depends on the person. Are you going on the date with a guy because you genuinely want to get to know him or do you think you want to get laid? If you're trying to get to know him as a person, I'd try to steer Gay hookup who pays for dinner of overtly sexual overtones. You'd be surprised how much the act of sex can drastically change a person over night. If it comes out that both of you are looking for a quick lay and it seems obvious to both of youthen I guess you could discuss sexual roles, but that'll Gay hookup who pays for dinner up once you two are probably making out and stuff.

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One person starts hinting what they want, and you just sort of fall into it. Yeah im not a quick lay kind of person. I let myself get a bit abused and I don't really know how to have sexual contact without that lol. If i didnt get with someone who was dom i don't know how anything would work.

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Last time I checked, real relationships had sex too. That's how my ex used to think me being the bottom.

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He would feel emasculated if I offered to pay meals. It really bothered me he could feel that way, but hey, Gay hookup who pays for dinner food. I always offer to pay, but appreciate it if the other guy either suggests going dutch or says that he'll pay on our next date. One of you has to choose Gay hookup who pays for dinner role of a woman.

That means he gets helped over puddles, meals paid for and gets to Gay hookup who pays for dinner you sex until at least 5 dates. Tried to make joke and failed. First date with a guy: First date with a girl: Just depends on the guy. You have to kind of feel it out.

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Personally I love being chivalrous, don't care if it's a guy or dude. But, it can make some people uncomfortable. Just suss out their comfort level and go from there. I think a lot of guys would find it sweet. As for paying, going Dutch is fine. However, I read somewhere that alternating who pays feels more romantic.

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Other than just not being an asshole and general personal etiquette like not talking with food in your mouth Personally I've been in situations where people try to pay for me and it makes me extremely uncomfortable.

Want to add to the discussion? If you set up a date, be on time. It's always been my personal rule that Gay hookup who pays for dinner I asked a guy on a date, I'd pay for the meal. Get off your damn phone during the date. Unless you are expecting an important call or text from someone, your social media and apps can wait. Be polite and engaging even if you don't think there will be a second date.

With how small the gay community can potentially be in your area, word travels around if you're known as a dick. I think this advice is universally good!

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I'm joking, I'm joking! That's just a joke. If they ask me on a date and ask to go dutch, no problem either.

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